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Childhood Emotional Dismissal

 


For those who experienced emotional dismissal as children, it's important to recognize that even though it may not have involved severe abuse, the impact on their emotional well-being can still be profound. Here's what they should know about how it may have impacted them, speaking to their inner child in a mental health/therapy context:

  1. Your Feelings Are Valid: It's essential for your inner child to know that the feelings they experienced due to emotional dismissal are valid and worthy of acknowledgment. Even if it seemed like others didn't take your emotions seriously, they were real and deserving of attention.


  1. You Are Not Responsible for Others' Actions: Your inner child may carry a burden of responsibility for the emotional dismissal they experienced, believing that they somehow caused it or weren't worthy of being heard. It's crucial to reassure your inner child that they are not to blame for others' actions or reactions.


  1. Your Needs Matter: Emotional dismissal can lead to a belief that your needs are unimportant or unworthy of consideration. Your inner child deserves to know that their needs are valid and deserving of being met. It's okay to express your needs and seek support from others.


  1. It's Not Your Fault: Your inner child may have internalized the message that they were somehow deficient or unlovable because of the emotional dismissal they experienced. Remind your inner child that they are not at fault for others' inability to validate their emotions or respond to their needs adequately.


  1. You Deserve Love and Acceptance: Despite the emotional dismissal you experienced, your inner child deserves love, acceptance, and validation. Affirm your inner child's worthiness of love and reassure them that they are deserving of kindness and compassion.


  1. Healing is Possible: While the wounds of emotional dismissal may run deep, healing is possible. Encourage your inner child to seek support from a therapist or counselor who can help them process their emotions, build self-esteem, and develop healthier coping strategies.


  1. You Are Resilient: Despite the challenges you faced, your inner child is resilient. Celebrate your inner child's strength and resilience, recognizing the courage it takes to confront past hurts and work towards healing.

By addressing these points and providing reassurance and support to your inner child, you can begin to cultivate a sense of validation, self-worth, and healing. Remember to be patient and compassionate with yourself as you navigate this journey of self-discovery and healing.
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